Monday, November 26, 2007

I don't feel bad!

Welcome to my non-geek, non-technical blog. And since you are here, I'd like to share with you a secret. Last weekend, I was dumped by I girl I knew. In fact our relation ended even before it started. But the weird thing is, I didn't feel bad, mad, sad, or any other -ad ending feelings. May be I didn't love her that much in the first place. I am a bit confused, you know sometimes you love being with some girl, more than loving the girl herself. I still remember Forrest Gump's famous quote, "I am not a smart man, but I know what love is". However I think, "I am a smart man, but I don't know what love is", suits me more now.

Most of the time people relate it to chemistry when they fall (or fail) in love with others. I really don't know what kind of chemistry are they talking about. You know, I have my own chemical equation here. In chemistry they have a certain scale to measure the acidity or alkalinity of a solution, which is known as pH scale. Solutions at 25°C with a pH less than seven are considered acidic, while those with a pH greater than seven are considered basic (alkaline). When a pH level is 7.0, it is defined as 'neutral' at 25°C. So, let's imagine another scale here, and let's call it pN scale, where the letter "p" refers to politeness, while the letter N refers to how "Naughty" you are. And people here can be anything between 0 (So polite, or naive) up to 14 (Naughty). The point is, in order for a relation to succeed, both parties pN values, have to be as close as possible, with the man-party having a value slightly above that of the woman-party. If she is too naive to him, he will get really bored of her and she will get jealous all the time. Even in Quran, it's said the:

الْخَبِيثَاتُ لِلْخَبِيثِينَ وَالْخَبِيثُونَ لِلْخَبِيثَاتِ وَالطَّيِّبَاتُ لِلطَّيِّبِينَ وَالطَّيِّبُونَ لِلطَّيِّبَاتِ

Which means; "Good men are for those good women, and bad men are for those bad ones".

Ooops, what the hell did I say here? It's my non-technical blog, however I insisted in the first post here to talk about pH Scale, and Chemistry, and such holy crap.

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